I always believe that in a marriage relationship that two shall become one. That Husbands and Wives should be of one mind. Peter 1:3-8 Be of one mind, have compassion for one another, love as brothers, be tender-hearted, be courteous. If both Husband and Wife are on one accord, there will be no division. One cannot go to one place of fellowship, while another goes to another place of fellowship. What one pastor may teach and agree on, another pastor may not. I have known of friends that marriages have be broken in divorce where the Husband and Wife does not agree on the word, from the teachings of their pastors. Husbands and Wives must be on one accord in all things. If they are not on one accord, there will be divison in their household. When Husbands and Wives fulfill their roles in Harmony with God”s counsel the results are very satisfying and rewarding.
Luke 11:28- Happy are those hearing the word of God and keeping it. The Bible says Husbands continue loving your Wives, just as Christ loved the Congregation. and delivered up himself for it. Husbands should love their Wives as they love their own bodies. He who loves his wife, love himself, for no man ever hated his own flesh, but he feeds and cherishes it, as Christ also does the Congregation.
Ephesians 5:23, 25-29. In the scripture John 13;1 15:13- Husbands are urged to keep on loving their Wives and do not be bitterly angry with them. I say if Husbands and Wives regconize their own mistakes, then both must forgive each other. A successful marriage is the union of two forgivers. Both Husband and Wife deserves thoughful consideration. Wives are weaker vessals to whom Husbands are commanded to assign honor. Both must remember that it is faithfulness, not weather a person is amle or female, that makes one precious to God.
Psalm 101:6- Husband and Wife must remember that they are no longer two, but one flesh.
Ephesians 5:29. Corinthians 11:3 Husbands must remember that they are accountable to their own head.
John 20:1 11-13,16 says Wives must yearn for tender affection from their Husbands. The head of Christ is God, just as the head of Woman is Man. No Man is perfect, therefore no Wife should belittle what her Husband does or try to take over headship. A Wife does well to remember that in God’s view a quite and mild spirit is of great value.
1 Peter 3:4 – by displaying such a spirit, she will find it easier to demostrate Godly subjection, even under trying circumstnaces. Wives should have deep respect for their Husbands. Ephesians 5:33- Be in sublection to your own Husbands, in order that, if any are not obedient to the the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their Wives, because being eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect-
1 Peter 3:1-2. When a Wife tactfully expresses her opinion to her Husband that differs from his, she is not being disrespectful. Her view point maybe correct and it would benefit the whole House3hold if the Husband was to listen, God told Abraham about his wife Sarah, “Listen to her voise.” The bible tells us a wife should not depart from her husband and a husband should not leave his wife.
(1 Corinthians 7:10, 11) And only fornication by one of the marriage mates provides scriptural grounds for divorce. (Matthew 19:9)